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Curvy Match

Free safety tool

Chaser Check: is this message about you, or about your body?

Paste a message from a dating app. We highlight the phrases that often come from chasers, fetishists and romance scammers, and suggest what to reply or when to block.

Chaser Check

Runs in your browser. Nothing is sent.

The check happens on this device as you type. We don't store or see what you paste.

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We look for six kinds of signals: body-focused openers, secrecy, fast intimacy, feeder language, money requests, and backhanded compliments.

This tool is indicative only. It matches common phrases and can miss context, sarcasm, or new scam scripts. Trust your instinct: if a conversation makes you uneasy, that is reason enough to step away.

Why this exists

Many curvy women know the feeling: a message that sounds flattering but is really about a type, not a person. Being attracted to curvy bodies is fine. Treating a woman as a fetish, keeping her secret, or using compliments as leverage is not.

This check puts words on patterns that are easy to second-guess at the end of a long day. It runs entirely on your device, so you can paste a message without it going anywhere. For the longer version, with real-life examples, read chubby chaser red flags and how to spot them.